WHAT MATTERS MOST
If you’re ready to decide where
to go to church – or not sure if the church you’re attending is where God wants
you – you may be faced with difficult choices as well. A lot is at stake. Most
of us have a lot of options. And most of us have a lot of preferences, too. So
how do we decide what matters most?
The
wisdom you need to choose a church is a little like the wisdom a person needs
to choose a spouse. For example, it’s not wrong for a woman to want to marry a
man with blond hair who likes Italian food and hiking. But it would be foolish
to place these preferences over the priority of his being truly converted and
growing in godliness. In the same way, it’s not wrong to want a church with a
lot of people your age or to prefer a certain style of worship music – but
these are secondary concerns. Curtis’s example is helpful. He chose a church
based on the criteria God’s Word gives – not just on his preferences, or what
felt comfortable to familiar to him. In the same way, we need two different
lists when it comes to selecting a church – a “must-have” list and a
“that-would-be-nice” list of qualities in a church. In this chapter, I want to
help you with your “must-have” list.
TEN IMPORTANT QUESTIONS
Use these ten questions to help you explore and
understand a church you’re considering. They work whether you’ve been there for
two weeks or ten years. This list isn’t exhaustive, and some of the questions
will take time to process. But they can help you hone in on the issues that
matter most.
1. Is this a church where God’s Word is
faithfully taught?
“The kind of
church you want to be a part of,” writes Donald Whitney, “is one where, when
the Bible is read at the beginning of a sermon, you can be confident that what
follows will be built upon it. God made our hearts, and only He knows what we
need most. And He made our hearts for the Word of God. Nothing nourishes us
like his message.” A God-glorifying church is governed by God’s Word. Paul
tells us in 2 Timothy 3:16 that “all Scripture is breathed out by God and
profitable for teaching, for reproof, for correction, and for training in
righteousness.” Be careful here. At first glance, most churches will appear to
teach God’s Word. You’ll see it printed in the bulletin, written on the walls,
or sprinkled through the services. But these references to Scripture don’t
necessarily mean a church is submitted to God’s Word.
Some
teachers start their messages with the Bible, but it’s only a jumping-off point
to share their own opinions. I should know – I used to be one of those teachers!
I used to build entertaining messages around engaging illustrations, stories,
or ideas I had. I always peppered my messages with Scripture. But Scripture
wasn’t the meat of the message; it was only the seasoning. Since then, God has
mercifully helped me to grow in my understanding of faithful preaching. I’ve
learned that the best thing I can do for my church is to build a message on the
teaching of a particular passage of Scripture – to draw my points and emphasis
from the points and emphasis of the passage. This approach, often called
expositional preaching, can be expressed through many different personalities
and presentation styles (and it doesn’t have to add up to long, difficult, or
boring sermons!). The driving principle is that God’s Word has the authority.
The preacher’s task is simply to unleash what it has to say to God’s people. So
your first priority is to look for a church whose teaching is driven by a
confidence in the authority of Scripture."
WHAT TRULY IS BIBLICAL EXPOSITION? WHY IS IT SO IMPORTANT? WHY IS IT SO HARD TO FIND FAITHFUL PREACHERS WHO DECLARE THE WHOLE COUNSEL OF GOD? If you get the first mark of a healthy church wrong (biblical preaching and teaching) everything that follows in this article will not make sense. So make sure you know what biblical preaching is before you move into items 2-5 and 6-10.
See Steven J Lawson's, "Famine in the Land: A Passionate Call For Expository Preaching."
See Alistair Begg's short book, "Preaching For God's Glory."
See Albert Mohler's "He Is Not Silent: Preaching in a Postmodern World."
See John Piper's, "The Supremacy of God in Preaching."
See John MacArthur's, "Preaching: How To Preach Biblically."
See Martyn Lloyd-Jones, "Preachers and Preaching."
2. Is this a church where sound doctrine truly matters?