"When Your Reputation is Unfairly Tarnished in Service to Christ." At the Feet of C.H. Spurgeon (pt. 2).

How should you respond, quoting Spurgeon again, "When you come under the cruel rebukes of your enemies and the ungenerous reproofs of pretended friends?"

I am learning that in many situations it is best to say little or nothing at all because many of your most critical critics have already made up their minds.  

It is not uncommon for pastors to find themselves in "lose-lose situations" (humanly speaking).  I am thinking of those contexts where if your pastor says nothing at all people will assume that the things his critics have stated are true and will likely pull away and/or leave the church.  If your church leaders prepare a fact-filled response these same people will accuse them of sharing too much information or of being proud and defensive.  In situations like this what is a pastor to do?  Read 2 Corinthians if you need help understanding what it is I am trying to highlight here.

Many of the strongest and most critical prejudices formed against Word-driven pastors are commonly based on what someone has told someone else ("hearsay").

"When Your Reputation is Unfairly Tarnished." At the Feet of C.H. Spurgeon (pt. 1).

Throughout my Christian pilgrimage I have placed myself at the feet of Charles Spurgeon many times over.  While reading Spurgeon's authorized biography I have been learning a lot about gospel-centered evangelism, Christ-centered preaching, and pastoral ministry that is Word-driven.

I recently came across a helpful section on criticism and slander.  How should a Christian pastor respond when his reputation is unfairly tarnished?  What should you do when former disgruntled members actively seek your demise especially when you pastor a local church in a smaller community?   As with every wisdom scenario context is very important.   

Everyone agrees that it is imperative to humbly consider any and all criticism in order to prayerfully discern if their is even a 'kernel of truth' in it.  Having said that, some church leaders have also suggested that it is never prudent to defend yourself or your ministry from misrepresentations even when the criticism or slander is grossly imbalanced or patently false.  "Let God take care of your reputation."   In many instances this may be the wisest course of action but not always.  Spurgeon, following Paul's own example in 2 Corinthians, provides a few illustrations of what to do, or not do, when you find yourself in the line of fire.

Concerning his own ministry Spurgeon writes, "It was my lot to go through two or three years of the most violent abuse, and I thank God for it.  I felt it very hard to bear, but I fell upon my knees before God, and told Him that, when I gave Him everything else, I gave Him my character, too.  If I had known that by faithfully serving Christ I must ruin my reputation, I think I should not have paused for a single moment."